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Saturday 14 December 2013

Mandela Speaks


The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”
Quoting Marianne Williamson


“And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same”


“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.”




“It always seems impossible until it’s done.”





“There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.”
“If you want to make peace with your enemy, you have to work with your enemy. Then he becomes your partner.”



“As I have said, the first thing is to be honest with yourself. You can never have an impact on society if you have not changed yourself... Great peacemakers are all people of integrity, of honesty, but humility.”


“After climbing a great hill, one only finds that there are many more hills to climb.”


“If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart.”


“It is better to lead from behind and to put others in front, especially when you celebrate victory when nice things occur. You take the front line when there is danger. Then people will appreciate your leadership.”

“As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

“There is no easy walk to freedom anywhere, and many of us will have to pass through the valley of the shadow of death again and again before we reach the mountaintop of our desires.”


“There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged to find the ways in which you yourself have altered.”


“As a leader... I have always endeavored to listen to what each and every person in a discussion had to say before venturing my own opinion. Oftentimes, my own opinion will simply represent a consensus of what I heard in the discussion. I always remember the axiom: a leader is like a shepherd. He stays behind the flock, letting the most nimble go out ahead, whereupon the others follow, not realizing that all along they are being directed from behind.”





“There can be no keener revelation of a society's soul than the way in which it treats its children.”





“A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination.”




“I have walked that long road to freedom. I have tried not to falter; I have made missteps along the way. But I have discovered the secret that after climbing a great hill, one only finds that there are many more hills to climb. I have taken a moment


“For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others.”




“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.”



















“We must use time wisely and forever realize that the time is always ripe to do right.”





“It is said that no-one truly knows a nation until one has been inside its jails. A nation should not be judged by how it treats its highest citizens, but its lowest ones,”




“When the water starts boiling it is foolish to turn off the heat.”
“I dream of an Africa which is in peace with itself.”




“Money won't create success, the freedom to make it will.”





“Does anybody really think that they didn't get what they had because they didn't have the talent or the strength or the endurance or the commitment?”




“That was one of the things that worried me - to be raised to the position of a semi-god - because then you are no longer a human being. I wanted to be known as Mandela, a man with weaknesses, some of which are fundamental, and a man who is committed”
“Let freedom reign. The sun never set on so glorious a human achievement.”




“There is no such thing as part freedom”









“I detest racialism, because I regard it as a barbaric thing, whether it comes from a black man or a white man”





“Let there be work, bread, water and salt for all.”




“We need to exert ourselves that much more, and break out of the vicious cycle of dependence imposed on us by the financially powerful: those in command of immense market power and those who dare to fashion the world in their own image”





“Only free men can negotiate; prisoners cannot enter into contracts. Your freedom and mine cannot be separated.”




“The curious beauty of African music is that it uplifts even as it tells a sad tale. You may be poor, you may have only a ramshackle house, you may have lost your job, but that song gives you hope”.





“If there are dreams about a beautiful South Africa, there are also roads that lead to their goal. Two of these roads could be named Goodness and Forgiveness.”








“How can I be expected to believe that this same racial discrimination which has been the cause of so much injustice and suffering right through the years, should now operate here to give me a fair and open trial?....consider myself neither morally nor legally obliged to obey laws made by a Parliament in which I am not represented. That the will of the people is the basis of the authority of government, is a principle universally acknowledged as sacred throughout the civilized world.”

“The time comes in the life of any nation when there remains only two choices - submit or fight. That time has now come to South Africa. We shall not submit and we have no choice but to hit back by all means in our power in defense of our people,…”


                                                                         Quotations Credit- www.thinkexist.com


Sunday 8 December 2013

When a god dies...



I woke up on Friday morning and immediately switched on the radio on one of my phones to RADIO CONTINENTAL 102.3 fm. It was a few minutes past six in the morning and they were delivering the early morning news. The volume of the radio wasn’t too high so it won’t disturb others who were still sleeping, but as faint as the audio from the radio was, I could make out what the newscaster was reading- ‘’…he left prison after 27 years to become their first black president. He worked tirelessly to forge reconciliation in the divided country…’’ at this point my dad told me to switch off the phone or rather, the radio for our morning devotion. As I switched the radio off and we were getting ready for the morning devotion, I didn’t need anybody to tell me whose profile was being read. It was very clear who it was the newscaster was describing. Just then it dawned on me that such exercise by the newscaster is usually done when a prominent person, a public figure dies. But the being for whom the world’s mass media had stood still wasn’t just a prominent person or a mere public figure; characteristics he very well transcended, he was a god. I kept my thought to myself during the devotion and when it ended, I immediately invited my younger brothers to listen to the radio broadcast and their conclusion was as good as mine, a god had died.
Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela was a colossus. That was why he was able to stomach with immense courage, all the assaults and attacks thrown at him by the apartheid regime; a giant whose achievements and accomplishments are outstanding, a titan who was powerful beyond measure, stretching his influence across boundaries and borders. In comparison with others of his kind and time, Mandela was a leviathan. Mandela was big and powerful.
It is not usual for a god to die because a god is supposed to rise above the natural, defy the ordinary and in fact direct the course of the ordinary. But a god died.
When gods die, they shake the world. For example, the bible records that the world practically stood still when Jesus died, He is considered by many Christians as God the Son, a concept I don’t believe in anyway. Michael Jackson was another god whose death sent shock waves around the world and whose aftershock is still being felt. One thing common with all these individuals and others like them was that they had a purpose for living, a purpose for which they were ready to die. After his release from prison, Mandela said I have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all persons live together in harmony and with equal opportunites...if needs be, it is an ideal for which I am prepared to die”.
A lot has been said about his virtues, values and essence. But I would like to point your attention to an aspect many people get wrong. As much as I believe that Mandela’s life stand as an example for politicians to emulate, even to those in his country, it is not only politicians who should model themselves after him (in fact most of them are not willing to do so, they are just pretending), anybody who thinks of impacting his generation should. Nelson Mandela successfully led himself before he led others, lessons about his life should be personalized by all (leaders and led). A lot of Nigerians, especially the youth will very easily compare Mandela to our leaders and talk about how these leaders should go to prison and die for their people; yet this army of young people would rather go to prison and die for the latest songs by P Square, Wizkid, D-banj and so on; songs that debase our values, deplete our cultural reservoir and extol sexual promiscuity in the name of useless entertainment.
Let us wake up and stop criticizing our leaders while we do nothing to and with ourselves; let us start working on ourselves today because tomorrow belongs to us; let us start feeding our heads and not our waists so that our actions will produce superior results that will resonate round the world. Mandela fed his head in prison, his law degree is an evidence of it and his works beyond prison showed it.
Mandela was not a man of superior values; he only lived out values that brought extra-ordinary solutions, values like freedom, equality, forgiveness, sanctity of the human spirit and love for mankind. These are values the leaders and the led should imbibe in Nigeria for us to make any meaningful progress.
A god has died, but he lives on because gods don’t really die, they transcend to greater realms of existence.
Adieu Madiba…



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Tuesday 3 December 2013

Still On The Essence of Value... Let Love Lead


It is not just our leaders that need a rebirth of values, we all do. For example, have you noticed how we drive on the road? We drive with nonchalance and disregard for other road users; or do you think the convoy of the Kogi state governor (and others we don’t hear about) just woke up suddenly and started crushing everybody including himself if it had not been a habit formed before becoming governor? Agreed, power is intoxicating, but power can be controlled with sound values and strong character.
We can talk about Kogi state governor’s convoy, Adams Oshiomole’s convoy and others and castigate them because they are public figures. What about the bullying of small bus drivers by trailer and tanker drivers, the intimidation of Okada riders and Danfo drivers by those who drive SUVs? What about the impatience of Danfo drivers, Keke riders and Okada riders, who rain abuses on one another at the slightest provocation and drive against traffic in utter madness? We have relegated love to the background.

I remember I used to go with my mum to the market when I was much younger to buy things; and you know, my mum would never take the initial price of an item without trying to beat it down as much as possible which results in some form of haggling. What usually shocks me however is how women like her would insult her just because they felt the price she gave them is unfavourable. LOVE RELEGATED.
What about the price hikes- on food items, transportation fares and on other goods and services- for no explicable reasons? Increases that increase the sufferings of the bearers with the inducers smiling away at their expense. Take note that these are ordinary people dealing with ordinary people; so when we complain about our leaders haven lost their values and dealing with us the way they do, we should know that we are no better either. LOVE ABANDONED.
Compatriots, let love lead. Love is value itself. It is not a complicated economic or theological theory. When you have love you have and express a high regard for your neighbour; you demonstrate to people around you that they are important and full of worth. Love is the greatest of all the values. It is upon it that all the other ones rest. When we love, we are more PATIENT and KIND because love is not JEALOUS or PROUD. Love is not ILL-MANNERED, SELFISH or EASILY PROVOKED. The impatience that so much characterizes the leaders and the led, the unkindness that we show to one another, the attitude of ‘pull him down to my level’ and the exaggerated sense of self worth we place on ourselves just so people will notice you and tremble at your feet are all indicators of LOVE DENIED.
The average Nigerian is ill-mannered, breaking all available laws and regulations meant for the proper functioning of society while seeking for what-is-in-it-for-him alone without regard for the other person.
In all these, we know that love DOES NOT REJOICE IN INIQUITY. If we have love, we will not surrender our altars as platforms for unrepentant, convicted criminals, especially those who have ripped us of our commonwealth to come and ‘praise God’ for His ‘goodness’ in their lives; because love REJOICES IN THE TRUTH.
Love BEARS ALL THINGS, BELIEVES ALL THINGS, and HOPES ALL THINGS, especially hope in a better Nigeria.
Ultimately, love NEVER FAILS. It will keep Nigeria from failing unless we let it lead.
Our leaders, who are a direct extraction from us will lead us astray unless they let love lead.
We will keep having ethno-religious violence unless we let love lead.
Let love lead…


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