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Tuesday 13 November 2012

THE BRAVADO OF A 15 YEAR OLD Lessons for those who cower



It takes a great fish in the vastness of the ocean to attempt to swim against the tide. To be uncommon is not common in an environment where commonness is a default. Of course it is true that “you don’t get harmony when everybody sings the same note”[i]- Doug Floyd
It also takes a great spirit to stand up for what is right, pulling away from the gravitational forces of mediocres who don’t understand how it is that you are going against nature or sometimes limiting and inhibiting nuture. They will do everything possible to pull you down. The great Albert Einstein captured it succinctly when he said that “great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocrities. The latter cannot understand it when a man does not thoughtlessly submit to hereditary”[ii].
Let me ask, won’t it be too much a burden for a 15 year old to carry these qualities of positive uncommonness and an audacious bravado? For Malala Yousafzai, a 15 year old school girl from the Swat District of Pakistan’s Khyber Pakhtunkhwa province, the answer is an emphatic NO!
This great spirit of a girl has defied odds stacked up against her by the circumstances surrounding her place of birth and residence in Pakistan, Swat (where the Taliban -who are ruthless with anybody who go against their principles and prescribed way of life- hold sway with all sorts of restrictions to fundamental human rights especially the embargo placed on the girl child education and the frequent bombardment of the Swat valley by the military who are trying to wrest the area from their control) to emerge as a world celebrated Youth, Women and Education activist who described the value she has chosen to place on her life thus:
“my purpose is to serve humanity”[iii]
Malala Yousafzai

What is it about this “little girl” who does not bear arms (save for her pen, paper and voice) that can threaten the sanity of the dreaded Taliban to the extent that they attempted the madness of assassinating her but failed on 9 October 2012 for her stance on girl child education in Pakistan? What is it about her will power that has shamed those with fire power? What is it about her that has made the entire world stand still?

Here’s what I think: she has placed an immense value on herself. It is such value that is not determined by the latest Blackberry, designer shoes and clothes, cars or wristwatches and other toys in similar category (items that serve as the measure of value for and of the average Nigerian young person) but by a clearly defined purpose and passion driven by her service for humanity. Hear her:
I have a new dream…I must be a politician (her father’s suggestion though she wanted to be a doctor) to save this country. There are so many crises in our country. I want to remove these crises”.[iv]
Malala Yousafzai
Don’t get it twisted; this is not the distant dream of a naïve 15 year old. This is not a dream she hopes to wake up from in a future but one she has started living out courageously in her present, in the face of daunting challenges and opposition coming from no lesser group than the Taliban.
I dare say friend that your life is as valuable as the things you pay attention to, the things that make you feel good, important and relevant.
If your attention is on the cheap designer items you surround yourself with, no matter how much they cost (I call them cheap because in the end they are items and are perishable and can’t stand the test of time) then your value is equally as cheap.
I challenge you to rise up like 15 year old Malala and be counted for and valued by your non perishable service to humanity or in a more simplistic way, your neighbor. I challenge you to live up to a cause worthwhile- even if it is not in as much scale as Malala’s. Let your dreams which define who you are like Malala’s be such that will inspire hope in the heart of a neighbor.
As Malala makes her way to recovery in a hospital in England,
 I urge you to make your way to recovery from self centered and valueless purposes and dreams because it pays more to be like a farmer in exchange than a farmer in  subsistence.
Malala Yousafzai has shown me that I can command the attention of the world by having the guts to stand up for something worthwhile.
Don’t forget, she’s just 15 years old…
Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt has lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? It is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men. Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.[v]
Matthew 5:13-14 & 16
Be inspired!
Remain motivated!



[i] www.quotegarden.com/conformity.html Accessed on 12th November, 2012.
[ii] www.quotegarden.com/conformity.html Accessed on 12th November, 2012.
[iv] http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Malala_Yousafzai Accessed on 10th November 2012.
[v] The Christian Bible.

NB: For more on the experience of Malala Yousafzai, just Google her name on the internet and you’ll find multiple links you can check out.

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